One of the main points of a London tantric massage is being open and honest. When you’re getting a massage done you need to be honest about your feelings, your emotions and what you expect from the session. This honesty should be carried on throughout the rest of your life and sex life away from your masseuse. It’s simply one of the best ways to assure that you have a healthy and satisfying sex life.
Just like during your massage it’s important to always let the person you’re sharing your time, energy and body with exactly what you like and what you done. It’s also important to listen to your partner to make sure they’re having a good time too. The best way to do this is to make sure you’re there, in the moment and sharing your experience completely. During a massage you’ll learn to focus on everything that is happening, every nuance of the body is important and being present is the most important part.
Being present sounds so simple and many people assure themselves that they’re capable of it but the truth is we get caught up in the moment and treat sensual energy like a fast burning fuel when really it’s made to last and be spent correctly.
The more massages you get the more you’ll be able to tap into that holy force and the more you do the more you will find yourself willing to open up about sex and vocalize what you need, what you want and how to achieve it. You’ll also be able to listen better and you will be able to recognize the power of listening to gesture and body motions. Communication between male and female energy is the basis of it all and when both energies converge and communicate correctly then real ecstasy is achievable.
This takes time and patience but if you’re willing to open up and communicate and allow for someone to communicate back then you’re already well on your way to sensual awakening.